By far the most trusted person in your life is "YOU". When I say "you" what I really mean is "your deepest self". You can only experience this trusted "secret person" when you are in very adverse conditions in life....when loneliness surrounds you.. a time when nobody seems to understand you , nobody wants to run that extra mile to comfort you...when everybody wants to look at things in their own perspective ...in simple terms ......you're lost battling the bad times all by yourself.

In times of despair and hopelessness, by nature we always reach for help from the outside..... .irrespective of the fact that most times the solution lies DEEP WITHIN US". We look for counselling, mentoring or guidance from the outside.........they can only help you to help yourself....This is the time when you need to "TAKE MATTERS INTO YOUR OWN HANDS " consult your most trustworthy person...and that's "YOU R SECRET SELF"

So how do we connect ourselves to our " Secret Self"?

Creating this connection does not mean that you have to change your life style or your character completely..... Trying to instantly change everything in you that has got constitutionalized into your biological and psychological system for many years.. ...is declaring a war within you.

Each time you focus on change ..you are in fact creating conflicting states of mind. And these imbalances in mind obstructs your progression in the efforts and energies you put into your education and personality development. When minds are in conflict they lose their power of pragmatism and cognition.

Let's think like extraordinary individuals ...we can connect to our deepest self with the highest degree of mental articulation maintaining an excellent balance of mind during this transition.

This connection begins with the introduction of ................
"NEW COMPULSIVE MENTAL ACTIVITIES"
These activities will not be introduced as an immediate replacement of your existing mental activities......but as an addition. This way you are not creating conflicting ground...there is no resistance caused...you are at freedom to engage in these new mental activities.

Eventually you find yourself occupied deeper and deeper in your new positive mental activities...........and these positives will overweigh the negatives allowing a gradual harmonious transition to this great connection with your deepest self.

What are these Compulsive Mental Activities.?

FIRSTLY: VIVIDLY IMAGINE your connection with your "Secret Persona" You can create your own picture of seeing you in this act of receiving guidance from your higher self which is your "secret persona' through the faculty of your creative imaginations.

Vivid imaginations only transform to realities if they are accompanied by image....from deep within your heart and combine your beliefs. Without belief playing a role in your imaginations ..they will only remain as castles in the air.

Take imaginations very seriously. You know you can even play around with your imaginations.....like entertaining you ,nothing wrong..keep that going. But when it comes to creating your extraordinary world ...connecting yourself to your higher intelligence.(secret person. ) you should even go to the extent of preparing yourself mindfully before you engage yourself in it. When I say prepare your mind...what I really mean is shutting your mind from the rest of your sensory inputs. You don't need to be in a meditative trance to VIVIDLY IMAGINE YOUR CONNECTION WITH YOUR SECRET SELF.

Let's continue with more on COMPULSIVE MENTAL ACTIVITIES as we meet next week.
Say Y.E.S. to be among "A COMMUNITY OF A FEW EXTRA - ORDINARY PEOPLE"