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Exploitation of children
Most children after six or seven years are busy around the home, running errands and helping their parents. Even in wealthier countries, children are encouraged to work for a few hours. This early training has a variety of benefits. Children running errands learn to communicate with other individuals. Children engaged in some kind of work learn a skill which could be useful in their later years.

Child labour, on the other hand implies something completely different. It is the exploitation and overworking of young children for personal benefits and also depriving them of their right to health and education.

It is commonly known that the greatest concentration of child labour is amongst the poorest people of Asia. In fact, 60% of child labourers are employed in Asia. Although they are considered to be the wealth of a nation, children very often are employed in bad working conditions with very little compensation. According to International Labour Organisation statistics, around 120 million children between ages five and four have full-time employment. They are employed in agricultural activities, garment industry, fishing industry, as porters and brick makers, beedi wrappers, mine workers, scavengers, sex workers and domestics.

The causes for this situation are many and varied. It is believed that poverty is the most important factor. Lack of educational opportunities, entrenched social and cultural practices and globalisation which has spawned labour intensive industries have in turn created a demand for cheap labour.

The international programme for the elimination of child labour of the ILO has spread its tentacles far and wide to eliminate slavery, forced labour, prostitution, pornography and other hazardous work involving children. Those employed in sweet shops and debt bondage are forced to work for long hours and obtain low wages. The latest survey conducted in Sri Lanka has revealed that nearly a million Sri Lankan children are in some form of employment, the majority being domestics.

How can we change this situation? No magic wand can be waved to combat the problem in a few days or months. However, all countries in the world can take steps to criminalise all offences committed against children or the exploitation of the young by adults for personal benefits. Universal compulsory education should be strictly enforced in a systematic manner. This coupled with poverty alleviation programmes, rehabilitation and vocational training for school drop-outs, through international cooperation will to some extent help control child labour in the world.
Amaranath Gnanasampanthen


Marrying for money
These days you hardly see or hear of a marriage being completed without the groom's side demanding a large sum of money and property as dowry.

What is this dowry anyway? Think about the amount of trouble parents go through when the time comes for their daughters to get married.

If they don't have the money, does it mean that their daughters can never get married? Is this what we call a fair world?

What's more, if it's a doctor, engineer, etc... the demand gets higher and higher. Come on, when these guys are so educated and earn enough, why on earth do they have to take a great amount of money and property from the bride's side? This is ridiculous and unexplainable as far as I'm concerned.

Parents giving what they like to the couple as a gift is something different. It's a gift given with joy. But demanding dowry and measuring a girl's worth by her riches is completely unjust.

Qualities are what matter the most. Go for the good qualities she possesses. That's what is important for a stable married life. Money and riches may come and go. But good qualities and education are some things that will always be there. These things and a bit of hard work, are more than enough for a married couple to establish and live a peaceful life together.

I like to conclude with a call for all the guys who intend to get married in the future. Hey guys make a decision. Are you going to marry the money or the girl for what she is?
Nushrath Mansoor


Sexual harassment - A national pastime?
This letter is written to protest against the ever increasing number of perverts in our society who, in their depravity take satisfaction in clutching the private parts of women who have the misfortune of being within their reach.

A shrug of the shoulders and a 'men will be men' attitude in such instances will never do. Sexual harassment should be seen for what it is - a criminal offence which degrades a woman's dignity and humanity. I hope that every woman reading this letter, who, at some point in her life has been a victim of such perversity, will make her indignation and displeasure HEARD and FELT.

The surest means of protection from sexual harassment in the future is to inculcate in all minds a healthy respect for the human body. Yet, are we even close to creating an environment in which such respect can be generated? Mostly through a glut of socially irresponsible advertising, the woman is continually, mercilessly demeaned to the level of a sex object or baduwa or gediya as it is so crudely put in Sinhala.

Do we really need to see models parading in underwear to know what underwear looks like? Do we really need to be burdened with the sight of a half exposed bikini area to know that cricket is a passion? I don't.

Every responsible adult in this society has the duty of doing his or her utmost in whatever way possible to rid our environment of sexual harassment and all factors that contribute to it. Otherwise, there is nothing that prevents our country from degenerating even faster into a breeding ground for perverts.
J. C. Wickramaratne


Hello out there
Hey Guys, (Shane, Shaun, Fazlie, Justin and Shaan)
Wuz up? O.K. we know that God is everywhere. Hey Shane, Kimmy misses you so badly and Shaun, Kimmy misses you so madly. Enrique Debb misses you so badly and you too, Justin. And finally, S misses you, Shaan. And we wish you a fantastic future and that's it.
Bye, Bye, Bye.
From Guess Who (U'll know who)

Tharashee (D. B. V.)
Hi! Can you remember me? How are you and your friend keeping? (That proud girl, sorry I forget her name) Contact me through this page.
Mass

To my dearest Dinusha Nangi,
Wish you a very happy 19th birthday. May all your dreams come true. My heart belongs to you! You are so special to me. Please call me.
Your ever loving,
Akhila

To my Dearest Shaman,
I want to say that I love you so much and you are always in my dreams, please don't misunderstand me. Don't be so proud. Please give me a call. How many times have I called you, but yet you ingore me. I miss you so much. Take care and may God bless you.
From the girl who loves you so much (N)

To our darling nona, Safna and Saldeen,
We wish you a very happy 7th birthday on September 21.
From Saju, Musthaq, Muksi, Farin Aunty and Aslam Uncle

The queen of my life, Eshani (Bashi),
Though we are far apart, I still feel that you are close to me. I just want you to know that I love you so much and I miss you when we are apart. Remember I'll always be yours. You are the girl of my dreams. I want to be with you, laugh with you and cry with you.
From ever loving Nishal (Muza)

To the two guys who were on the Chilaw train,
Hi, can you remember the two girls who were at the Dematagoda station on September 9 at 2.50 p.m. One girl was wearing a blue T shirt and ash trousers and the other girl was wearing a black blouse and a cream coloured skirt. You spoke to us. We'd like to get to know you both better. Contact us through this page.

From the two girls at the Dematagoda Station,
D and N

To the most thrilling Guy, Shibly (2002 A/L)
Hi, Shibly, how are you? V wish you a fantastic birthday. What happened to your A/L results? Hope you got through. We miss you in the same way that you miss us!
From the unforgettable, invisible girls of Eleven in Level

 


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