A year has passed since the death of my mother-in-law, Edith de Lanerolle (nee Edirisinghe). “Mummy”, as I used to call her, was an important figure in the lives of her children Hashendra, Mohan (Loni), Rohan, Krishni, Kumudini (Kumu) and Nirukshi, as well as her daughters-in-law, sons-in-law, grandchildren and even great grandchildren.
At the age of 93, when God called her home, Mummy had lived a complete and satisfying life, having been married to Malcolm de Lanerolle for a long period of time, raised six children who became well established in life, and living a successful and happy life, with God as her guide at all times.
Mummy was a strong and courageous person who was ready to put her hand to many matters without any fear, including matters normally handled by men.
In fact, she was one of the very first women drivers in the whole of Sri Lanka. She drove her old Wolsley for many years, even after the death of her husband. She did not consider age a barrier to sitting behind the wheel of a car!
She was a source of great strength to my father-in-law, and she was a good and guiding mother to her children, teaching them the true values of life, with a solid Christian background.
Mummy was a regular churchgoer. In fact, even after suffering a stroke in 2005, she was still determined to attend church as often as she could. She was always happy when she was in the House of God.
Many members of the church congregation were greatly encouraged, seeing her determination and faith in God in handling difficult situations in life.
Although Mummy is no more, memories of her remain with us. We know that she is now with her Maker, enjoying everlasting life and the joys of Heaven.
Sunil Fernando |
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