Appreciations
View(s):An exemplary public servant
K.H.J. Wijayadasa
When Charmalee asked if I could write an appreciation of her father, K.H.J.Wijayadasa, to mark his second death anniversary, I readily agreed, not because I am much of a writer but due to my very enjoyable and enriching association with him for well over 40 years.
An outstanding product of the then prestigious Ceylon Civil Service, Wijayadasa was small in size and huge in stature. Although not a flamboyant character in the Civil Service like Shirley Amerasinghe or Sarath Amunugama for that matter, he was buoyant and steadfast throughout his career. His razor-sharp mind was remarkable. His wit and sense of humour were irrepressible.
Wijayadasa was indeed an example of omni-competent leadership in public service. He was always prepared and always organized even after taking on far more than others and making it all work efficiently.
Holding the highest positions in public service, he could not be pressurised to do the wrong thing or persuaded to protect wrongdoers.
Wije was the Government Agent in Polonnaruwa in 1970 when the UNP, led by Dudley Senanayake, lost the General Election. Dudley had publicly acknowledged that Wije was the best Government Agent in the country, working tirelessly to make the food drive a success.
Within 48 hours of the United Front’s victory and the formation of the government with Sirimavo Bandaranaike as Prime Minister, party supporters ran berserk, thrashing UNP supporters and illegally acquiring and forcibly occupying state land including forest and tank reservations. The first thing Wije did was to appeal to the two new MPs in Polonnaruwa and Minneriya, to help him bring this chaotic situation under control. His appeals fell on deaf ears. Disappointed, he nevertheless sprang into action using the full powers vested in the office of the Government Agent.
He mobilised the police, officials of the Land Commission and Kachcheri, and duly evicted all squatters. The result was Government Agent Wijayadasa being evicted from Polonnaruwa and sent to the pool, also known as the Siberia of public service. He was rescued from Siberia by his contemporary in the university and colleague in the civil service Leel Gunasekara, the then Cabinet Secretary.
In 1970, the same fate befell two other jewels in the civil service crown, namely Bradman Weerakoon and Neville Jayaweera. Bradman was sent to Ampara and Neville driven to Vavuniya.
Whenever governments changed, from the UNP to the SLFP or vice versa, the powers that be wilfully and typically misconstrued the efficiency of a public servant serving the government and the people diligently as sycophancy.
This was Wije’s fate. In 1977, when the UNP returned to power, Wije was Chairman of the Land Reform Commission in addition to several other hats he wore. Just a few days after the formation of the J.R. Jayewardene government, a close friend of the new Minister of Lands and Agriculture, E.L. Senanayake, walked into Wije’s room and requested that Wije release 50 acres of coconut land to his wife in addition to the 50 acres he had already got under land reform, which he was entitled to. Wije, in his unassuming way, showed him the relevant clause of the Land Reform Act and asserted that he could not accede to his request unless the law is amended.
Wije was then handed a letter from the Minister which was in fact a directive to comply with this request. Wije politely replied that it was an illegal order and that he would explain to the Minister. In 24 hours Wije was sent to the pool. This time around he was rescued by the Minister of Local Government, Housing and Construction, R. Premadasa.
Premadasa had known Wijayadasa as a resourceful and competent bureaucrat when he was the Government Agent, Polonnaruwa. He took him on as Additional Secretary to his ministry. This was the beginning of Wije’s long, challenging, eventful and arduous journey with Premadasa.
Very soon and as usual, in addition to his position of Additional Secretary, he had to wear several other hats in the form of chairmanships of the Central Environmental Authority, State Engineering Corporation, Road Development Authority etc. And, as if this was not enough, he was also made the Secretary to the Ministry of Highways. He was, needless to say, back in his element.
In 1978, when Premadasa became Prime Minster, he chose Wije to be his secretary. The same followed when Premadasa won the presidency.
Premadasa was a visionary and doer. He was ruthlessly efficient. He never took ‘no’ for an answer. The deadlines he set for his ambitious programmes were deadly. Sometimes his demands led to extreme and awkward situations such as his insistence on taking his own teleprompter to the UN when he addressed the General Assembly, which was not allowed by UN housekeeping. On such occasions the tactician in Wijayadasa came alive. He painstakingly cultivated his own method of working with President Premadasa who could be quite unconventional and idiosyncratic in his methods.
Be it Janasaviya, the one million housing programme or 200 garment factories, Wije was one of the key players along with colleagues like Susil Siriwardena and Alapperuma in realising Premadasa’s vision. He was, in fact, a modern version of ‘Purohitha’ in Premadasa’s court. Wiser counsel was readily available to President Premadasa, especially when at times he was irrational and stubborn on critical issues such as relations with India.
I was fortunate to have a ringside view to all this as I was often consulted on matters relating to communications by President Premadasa. I was indeed fortunate to have served on several committees appointed by President Premadasa and headed by Wijayadasa such as the National Information Strategy and Coordinating Committee (NISAC), Committee to Formulate Guidelines on Publications by State Sector Institutions, Committee on Optimum Utilization of State-Owned Video Units and several other ad hoc committees. Very often Wije would commence proceedings (except NISAC, where the Chairman was Neville Jayaweera) with a joke and conclude with an anecdote.
Personally, I think, Wije’s most fulfilling years in public service were in provincial administration as GA Ampara, Polonnaruwa and Kegalle. He toured his districts extensively, visited remote villages regularly, interacted with villagers cordially and found solutions to their problems instantly. An easygoing Government Agent, Wije endeared himself to all those poor people to whose problems he brought some relief through quick decisions and practical solutions. He had great empathy for rural folk, being himself a ‘Gamiya’ as he would often say.
Wije always safeguarded the highest traditions in public service and never tolerated any interference in or intrusion into this domain.
When D.B. Wijetunga was accidentally catapulted into the presidency following Ranasinghe Premadasa’s assassination, a one-time powerful secretary and diplomat – a very affable person – simultaneously ascended to a position of power in the Presidential Secretariat as an advisor to the new president.
During this time, it became clear that the UNP would field Gamini Dissanayake as the presidential candidate. One day, the new adviser to the President walked into Wije’s room and told him that the presidential campaign should begin from the Presidential Secretariat and that he should summon all the officers for a meeting. Taken by surprise and angered, Wijayadasa got up from his seat like lightning and told him in a raised voice, ‘as long as I am the Secretary I will not allow any political activity in this place; this is not a party campaign office,’ and started walking towards the Presidential adviser who made a hasty retreat.
Upon his retirement from public service Wije’s expertise was sought by numerous UN agencies. He undertook significant assignments with far reaching impacts. However, one voluntary role he cherished was serving as the Chaiman of the Sri Maha Bodhi Ran Vata Fund, established to erect a gold plated fence around the sacred Sri Maha Bodhiya. This brought immense joy to Buddhists in Sri Lanka.
Irvin Weerackody
Memories that refuse to let your presence slip away
Annette Perera nee Mendis
You left us one year ago, yet it feels like only yesterday. We will think of you, as hymns rise and echo through the church, as hymn sheets are passed along on a feast day, beneath the weary turning of an old fan.
We will smile at the mischief in your eyes, the words only you could make your own, and even recall your gentle displeasure as we chased our playful puppy around the quiet winding lanes.
Your sewing skills, a gentle art you shared, and the soft PJs crafted with loving care, still bring comfort like warm embraces as we cuddle in bed, wrapped in threads spun from your heart.
The flavours of your cooking, marked by your own special touch, linger on our tongues – still savoured, still stirring a quiet hunger, a taste of love that never fades.
Your love for singing, your voice so clear, is a melody filling the silence in our hearts, lifting us gently, reminding us you are near.
Our unfinished checkers game will come to mind each time I sing ‘One Day at a Time’. Though your stories still bring a smile, they are softer now without your laughter by our side.
One day at a time, the ache will soften, and even the empty spaces where countless teacups once gathered like old friends in a sunlit room will bring less pain.
In our hearts, they still keep quiet company refusing to let your presence slip into the hands of time.
Rest in peace, Achchi Mummy, until we meet again.
Loving granddaughter Nishee
A banker, mentor, leader and role model
Ahmed Ismaildeen Marikar
It is no easy task to encapsulate the profound impact that A.I. Marikar had on the development and progress of Sri Lanka’s alternative financial system, commonly known as Islamic Banking and Finance (IBF).
A banker by profession having served the Grindlays Bank, Saudi British Bank, Emirates Bank, Middle East Bank and MCB Bank with distinction, Marikar was a teacher, mentor, leader and role model. I consider it a privilege and honour to have worked alongside such an exceptional human being.
An old boy of Zahira College, Colombo who graduated from the University of Ceylon, Peradeniya in 1965, he served the community with quiet dedication and became a guiding light to many who crossed his path either professionally or by casual acquaintance.
Towards the latter part of his banking career, Marikar dedicated himself to advancing the cause of Islamic Banking & Finance. This was not merely a professional task, it was a historic responsibility which he accepted wholeheartedly, advancing it with unwavering commitment and a deep sense of purpose.
He was part of a pioneering team that worked tirelessly to secure a licence for Sri Lanka’s first fully fledged Islamic bank from the Central Bank of Sri Lanka, a significant milestone. Beyond this effort, he influenced key reforms to the country’s banking regulations.
A man of humility, Mr Marikar never sought recognition or fame. For those who knew him closely, it was evident that he saw his work as Sadaqah Jariyah, a continuous charity whose benefits would extend to future generations.
Today, many within the IBF sector may be unaware of the intellectual depth, personal sacrifices, foresight and relentless effort that laid the foundation for this ethical financial model. Mr Marikar’s leadership was defined by compassion, and a remarkable ability to connect with people of all ages and walks of life, from young graduates to senior professionals and high ranking officials.
Those who had the privilege of working under his stewardship at Amana Investments would fondly remember his mentorship, his guidance and above all, his sincere care. Together with a Chairman and Board of Directors, SSB members, a pioneering management team and staff, Marikar was a key figure among the team that helped establish a workable alternative banking and financial model, one that offered all customers stability, credibility, and opportunities aligned to their individual preferences.
Begun as a bold initiative in the 1990’s, Islamic Banking has become an inseparable part of Sri Lanka’s banking industry.
Handpicked by the board of directors of Amana Investments to lead this mission, Mr Marikar, then as Managing Director, assembled and personally vetted a management team of dedicated professionals who understood the challenges ahead.
Marikar’s influence extended beyond his role at Amana. He generously shared his knowledge and expertise with other leading institutions including Commercial Bank of Ceylon, Hatton National Bank, National Development Bank, and Seylan Bank who derived much benefit from his advisory support in setting up dedicated IBF Units and developing Islamic Banking product offerings for their customers.
He also played a significant role in shaping academic curricula, particularly through his contributions to the Islamic Banking and Finance degree programme at South Eastern University, where he was also a visiting lecturer.
His contribution to the concept of Takaful Insurance in Sri Lanka and his inputs in product structuring enabled IBF service providers to enhance their product offerings to the public.
Yet, his life was not solely defined by his professional contributions. He exemplified balance, between work, family and community service. Following retirement, he devoted time to do what he enjoyed most, notably farming, sailing, charitable work, enjoying nature and most importantly, spending precious moments with his loving and caring family. His special bond with his grandchildren was particularly touching, a true reflection of the warmth and depth of his noble character.
It is now over four months since his peaceful passing. We pray that Almighty Allah (swt) grants him the highest station in Jannah. Aameen.
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon – Indeed, from Allah we come, and to Him we shall return.
Azad Zaheed
In loving memory of Danny mama
Dhanasena Lakshmana
Born on June 15, 1925, Dhanasena Lakshmana was the third in the family of six boys and one girl. He was known to his friends and relatives as “Danny”.
Following his two older brothers he attended Nalanda Vidyalaya. He used to say that the six of them were rascals, when small. He would relate how he escaped death in two train accidents. First, when the door he was leaning against suddenly flew open and he was thrown into a paddy field and second, when he tried to board a moving train and fell between the railway line and the platform.
Despite all his mischief he was successful in the Junior School Certificate exam at a young age of 14. In school he had taken part in several extra-curricular activities. He had won the B.S.A. Marksman’s badge for rifle shooting and captained the College under 16 Cricket XI and represented his school in many other sports.
He joined the Bank of Ceylon on April 1, 1943 at a young age of 17 years and nine months and worked there until his retirement on June 15, 1985. His initial monthly salary had been Rs. 50 from which he gave Rs. 5 to his mother. From small beginnings, he reached the position of Secretary to the Board of Directors which he held until his retirement.
He was President of the Buddhist Society for 14 years. The Bank of Ceylon never failed to felicitate him and invite him for their special events. The members of the Bank of Ceylon Pensioners’ Association visited him annually with gifts.
He always welcomed visitors and his conversations were always up to date. His memory was like that of an elephant. His book titled, “Memoirs of a Banker” is a testimony to his banking career.
He was a member of the Sri Jayawardana Ramaya Dhayaka Sabha for over 60 years and its Vice President at the time of his death. He joined the Y.M.B.A. in 1943 and was elected as a Vice President in 1995 which position he held until he retired in 2006. In honour of his services to the Buddha Sasana he was conferred the title of “Dharma Bandu”.
He was very much into cricket. He had joined the Bloomfield Cricket and Athletic Club in 1944 and been its Vice President for over 30 years. He was appointed its President in 1976 and 1977 and elected a patron of the club in 2005.
Danny mama, was our ‘Gold Standard’. Despite many a misfortune in his life he remained unruffled. He was very witty, always prim and proper in his attire, his clothes ironed with a neat crease and he wore a top hat when he went out. He was very erect in his walk, and never ever used a walking stick in his life. He and his wife had won several prizes for ballroom dancing.
Danny’s adorable wife aunty Sylvia passed away 20 years ago and he continued to live alone in his house. His daughter-in-law, Manami lived next door seeing to all his requirements. His birthdays were celebrated with dinner and a sing-song. He sang and danced to his old favourites. His 98th birthday was the last we enjoyed with him. He left us before his 100th birthday.
Except for the last few months of his life, he was in reasonably good health. He was not a diabetic; his blood pressure was 120/80. He ate moderately, had a very slim figure and followed good health practices.
Danny mama, we wish you a short journey in samsara and may you attain the Supreme Bliss of Nibbana.
Affectionately,
your neighbourhood nieces
Leading the way in the propagation of the Dhamma
Nelson Soysa (Anagarika Dharmapriya Mahinda)
Hennedige Nelson Hector Soysa (Proctor S.C.) came into contact with Asoka Weeraratna in the early ’50s after Asoka had conceived the idea of propagating the Buddha Dhamma in the West. Shortly after the Lanka Dhammaduta Society was established in 1952, Nelson gave up his lucrative legal practice as a Proctor, S.C. (in 1954) and devoted his energies to the propagation of the Dhamma.
He took another significant step. He changed his name to Dharmapriya Mahinda and became a strict vegetarian. He contributed Rs. 10,000 on the eve of the largely attended public meeting held at the Colombo Town Hall (September 6, 1954) launching the drive for funds, and in total, Rs. 20,000 to the Trust Fund. He was also instrumental in getting members of his family (including his two brothers H. A. Vincent Soysa and Dr. H. C. H. Soysa, among others) to contribute Rs. 5,000 each to the cause including the construction of the GDS Headquarters and Monks’ Training Centre (Sanghawasa) at 417, Bauddhaloka Mawatha, Colombo 7. These were princely sums of money at that time.
He was a founder trustee of the German Dharmaduta Society (GDS.) established in November 1954. He was prominently seen in the foundation laying ceremony for the construction of a Monks’ Training Centre (Sanghawasa) held on December 9, 1955, and Headquarters and Library of the GDS. He joined a GDS delegation from Sri Lanka to Burma in December 1955 to garner support and funds for the propagation of Theravada Buddhism in Germany. The delegation comprised Ven. U Seelananda (Burmese monk), Ven. Nyanaponika (German monk), Ven. Galle Anuruddha, Nelson Soysa, and Asoka Weeraratna (Founder and Hony. Secretary, German Dharmaduta Society).
This delegation attended the Sixth Buddhist Council held in Rangoon from 1954 to 1956. The Burmese Government under Prime Minister U Nu sponsored the Council.
Nelson Soysa later devoted his energies to propagating Buddhism in Africa. Unfortunately the African governments were unfamiliar with the Buddhist Dharmaduta missions and held him captive on suspicion. Later he was released and returned to Sri Lanka with the help of the government of Sri Lanka.
Nelson Soysa died in 1986.
His legacy is the Sandadi Hennadi Badde Liyanage Trust, which supports Buddhist missionary efforts by providing accommodation, training, and education for the Sangha for Dharmaduta missions overseas.
Senaka Weeraratna
We miss you on your birthday
Joanne de Zilwa Moonesinghe
Today is filled with memories
With happiness and tears
Of birthday celebrations we’ve
Shared through the years.
And though we’ll always miss you
The happiness you brought
Warms our hearts with gratitude
And fills our every thought.
Where ever you are resting
We hope that you can see
How precious and uplifting
Your memory will always be.
We feel that you are with us
In everything we do
So we will celebrate your birthday
But spend it missing you.
-Previn and Priyanka Moonesinghe and all her loved ones
Another birthday in heaven
Neville Pullenayegam
Dadda,
Another birthday in heaven…
Surely, it must be filled with peace, love, and joy.
We miss you so very much.
Your presence, your laughter, your love — too precious to ever be forgotten.
We were so blessed to have shared this life with you.
Each August 10th, we honour your memory,
Lighting candles, keeping flowers — keeping you close.
You live on in our hearts – our darling Mummy, Nimal Aiya, and all of you — you must be together in heaven now.
Until we meet again…
God bless you always.
(Remembered on your 100th birthday)
With love, Nirmalie Johnpillai
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