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Dear
Coz
Be glad to have him as a friend
Dear Coz,
I'm a 15-year old girl in love with a guy who's doing his
A/Ls. He means a lot to me even though he has a girlfriend in his
own class. But we talk in the library, during the interval and wherever
we meet each other. We are very good friends. He knows that I like
him a lot. Please Coz, help me.
PAJJ
Dear PAJJ,
Much as you love him, he's already got a girlfriend. Are you willing
to hurt another girl just to have him for yourself? I don't think
so. Continue as friends. Right now he might even be thinking you
are too young for him. Give it time. You never know what the future
may hold for you. If things change between them, you can make your
move. Until then, be glad you have him in your life as a friend.
Do
something romantic
Dear Coz,
I'm a 16-year-old boy. There is a girl of the same age who comes
to my tuition class. She is very beautiful and cute. I know she
loves me but she doesn't say anything. I'm a very shy guy and I
don't know how to communicate my feelings for her. I call her everyday
but she doesn't talk to me. She's really very innocent.
Givantha
Dear
Givantha,
Faint heart never won fair lady. Come on, be bold. If she's beautiful,
there's every chance that some other guy will try to get there before
you do. If she doesn't communicate with you over the phone, try
talking to her after classes. Work your way through slowly by gaining
her confidence. When she's comfortable with you, you can pop the
question. Write a letter. Do something romantic like making 16 hand
made cards for her birthday and you're sure to win her heart. Good
Luck!
No
smoke without fire
Dear SD, (letter withheld on
request)
Enlist your friend's boyfriend's help. Ask him to check out the
rumours. Don't believe in them until you know for sure. People love
to make up stories and add fuel to fire. Then again, there's no
smoke without fire. So get to know him. As for his behaviour, maybe
he's the really shy type. Give him some encouragement. A smile,
a hi, might encourage him. Whatever you do, take things slow. Don't
rush in with your eyes closed; you're the only one who'll get hurt.
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