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13th January 2002

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  • Lessons for life 
  • The stork dropped us?
  • I am not on a diet
  • Food for thought
  • Lady, you're charming
  • A grave problem
  • I love being me
  • Lessons for life 

    My school life is over. Though I'm relieved about the conclusion of the two dreadfully long years filled with A/L classes and cramming, I do miss my school days very much. The wonderful yesteryears filled with delight and despair will linger in my heart forever. Especially the first eleven years that I spent in my first school. Those 11 years were filled with laughter and tears.

    For the last two years of my school life I entered a new school, which is a mixed school. A new school with new pals, new surroundings and where almost everything seemed new to me. In those two years I gained a lot of experience, knowledge and the bitter realization of friends and foes. I found out how envy and unwanted passionate ideas can destroy "true" friendships. There, I learnt about guys- that was a novelty to me. My ideas about most guys changed from good, joyful and caring comrades and friends, to bad, spiteful and untruthful foes. In spite of that, I did find some really truly friendly guys and gals too. I did come across comrades without jealousy and spiteful ideas and guys without lustful passionate thoughts. I treasure those friendships. Apart from some bitter memories I did have my fair share of joy. Each new obstacle that I faced taught me a lesson for life. 

    However those times are over. A wide and wild world lies in front of me and sooner or later I'll be a part of it. My school days have given me the courage and strength to face the obstacles that lie ahead of me. And I'm looking forward to enjoying my life. After all, life is beautiful! I am truly thankful to my parents and my good chums for being with me all the time. And I'm thankful to my foes too. Because they've shown me what the real world is like. With their help I have learned to stand strong through the winds of change.

    Thank you all. And Adios dear old school days!!! 

    Left Eye of TLC-B/wela. 


    The stork dropped us?

    Why are grown-ups so set on not even mentioning the word 'sex', when we 'kids' are within earshot? I mean, we are here because of it, right? And when we asked mom about it she said the stork dropped us or something like that. That is about as believable as saying that people grew on trees, even when I was five years old. And now that we are a bit older it's 'be quiet, you're too young'. 

    As a 16-year-old I find this really frustrating, to say the least. I mean, we see it happening on TV, read about it in the paper, but the minute we open our mouths about it, we are abruptly shut up. 

    All these sex related crimes and diseases we hear about today, I think, are because of people who were given a wrong impression of sex when they were young and then, when they got older set out to find out for themselves and some if not all, became what we call prostitutes and perverts. What I'm trying to say is, if all you parents out there sat your kids down and taught them the story of the 'birds and the bees' at an early age, it would probably save us, and you, loads of trouble later on. I mean, with all these hormones raging about inside our bodies, we could use a break, right? 

    Madmax. 


    I am not on a diet

    All my life, I haven't been able to eat the normal quantity of food - normal in comparison to people of my age. This is because I have no appetite. I'd like to say that this DOESN'T mean that I am on a diet, or even remotely concerned with losing any weight. 

    So, all you people who feel guilty when you see my plate, don't ask me whether I am on a diet. It's annoying! Besides, even if I am, it's none of your business!

    It's good to take heed of what Ambrose Bierce said,

    "The hardest tumble a man can make 

    is to fall over his own bluff"

    - Thin gun


    Food for thought

    Chew chew chew u'r food 
    Fairly through your meal 
    The more you laugh, 
    The less you eat, 
    The better you sure would feel! 

    Kazeena Kazan


    Lady, you're charming

    I'm a teenage boy. One day when crossing the road I was hit by a car - the driver happened to be a beautiful lady. One of my legs was bleeding, but at the time my leg didn't seem such a big deal as I was mesmerised by her beauty. And the way she looked at me, made me forget I was sitting on the main road. She told me she was very sorry and gave me her address.

    People say women have many charming qualities. I didn't believe that earlier. But now I am a firm believer that the most important ones are her smile and the way she looks at a guy. 

    Now, whenever I see a lady smile I actually start to pray and if I see a lady driver approaching, I canot help but run for my life! 

    Nishan Jamien 


    A grave problem

    Nowadays elderly people undergo tremendous hardship both physically and mentally. The richer manage somehow, but the poorer cannot. Those isolated, suffer the most. Actually, what the elderly need most is respect and acceptance. But some tom fools fail to understand this and quarrel with them. 

    One cannot deny that the elderlys of today, were once respected citizens of the country. And they played a vital role in the socializing process of children in families. 

    Though we have a rich social structure, we often neglect the aged contrary to western countries. The elderly in Western countries often have some sort of solace inspite of their loneliness. The government also plays a role in looking after them. 

    In our country the elders' homes' render yeoman service. Some NGOs too help. But more should be done to help the elderly. According to a Chinese proverb, elder people are the gems of families. 

    But today, due to frustration, some aged people even commit suicide. What a pathetic situation. 

    To avoid such a plight, pre-planning in life is quite important. Those who look down upon the aged should realise that they too might be in a similar state some day. 

    S.Jegathiswaran 


    I love being me

    Did you ever know how comfortable it feels just being yourself. I discovered this fact and got to know myself only recently. Until then I lived in a nightmare. 

    I used to compare myself with others, some who were bright students and blame myself for not being like them. I always used to condemn myself and I failed to realise the skills I had. I felt disappointed and small. I thought I was the ugliest of my friends. 

    Life was dull and monotonous to me then. But thank God I'm a total different person now. Thank God it wasn't too late when I got to know the real me! 

    I didn't even find it very difficult, it happened when I started to love and respect myself for "my" own good qualities. It's when I started to respect myself for the things I had gained in my life, forgetting the criticisms and remembering only the compliments I've received to brighten my life. It was then I recognized my skills. 

    I started thinking more about the things I have in life (parents, friends, etc.). After convincing myself, saying "I am beautiful" to my own self I always see myself as a dark beauty in front of my mirror now. That's how I really started to live. 

    I am not that weak, sentimental, girl I used to be. I stand strong on my own feet and look around the world feeling ever so happy and confident. If I may offer you some advice - never compare yourself with anyone. There is only one 'you' in the world and your life is very important. The love and respect I've implanted within me for myself is for nothing, but me just being myself!

    C.M.From M.C 



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